Women's thought

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A woman walking with her family along a mountain road asks her husband if he would like some tea.


The road is difficult and dangerous, so the husband, who is fully focused on driving, refuses.


With that response, the wife's face changed and the conversation stopped...


But the husband does not see it, because he is completely focused on driving ...


The anger of the wife increases because the husband does not understand that she is in some trouble.


Then she calls her son and says:


🙄🙄Son, it's like we're on a train...we can't stop anywhere...


☺️☺️It is a word of command aimed at the husband...


😉😉Then I understand why the husband got upset and suggested to have tea..


☝Accordingly, she felt the need to stop the journey and stay for a while, so she suggested her husband to drink tea.


☝ But she did not tell her husband that need directly and asked if he wanted tea and thought to fulfill it and also fulfill her need...


☝☝ According to psychologists and sociologists, women often present their ideas, ideologies, wants and needs indirectly.


😏She doesn't say things directly and directly because she thinks it's like an order.


😏She wants to say things smoothly and softly to the other...


😏 According to the example above, if you say to your husband, "Let's stay for a while and drink some tea", it takes the form of a command.


So she said it indirectly.


👳But many men are not able to understand indirectly what women say in this way...and are not interested in it..


👳 This is because male and female brains work differently when it comes to using and understanding language.


🔉When they want something from the other


🔉A woman gradually begins to show the need to be very close to the other.


For example, a husband says to his wife:


This is not a trick or fake.


She wants to fulfill her needs without burdening others...


Therefore, giving the opportunity to help others in their own needs.


But most men can't understand this and some people can.


😳 That is why many wives are worried and stressed.


😳 By that time the problem has gone too far..


🥲When the wife complained about it


🥺🥺🥺Men always ask


😏Then tell me that first..


😏 Do I know what you mean by saying that..


😏 If it was said correctly, I wouldn't do that...


Neither side is at fault and this is because the communication between the two sides is different in terms of using language and grasping things.


Women don't ask for things, they expect things.


Although at first it was a normal expectation


When it is not received, Sankha becomes very depressed.


There she can't bear it, not her own failure to get what was expected,,,


Failure to live up to the other's expectations.


Maybe she can't handle it.


So if you have any thoughts about this, send them...


Here are some excerpts from the book Psychology of Women and Counseling.


Author Professor Roland Abepala..

👸👸👸Girls ...😍😍😍


A woman walking with her family along a mountain road asks her husband if he would like some tea.


The road is difficult and dangerous, so the husband, who is fully focused on driving, refuses.


With that response, the wife's face changed and the conversation stopped...


But the husband does not see it, because he is completely focused on driving ...


The anger of the wife increases because the husband does not understand that she is in some trouble.


Then she calls her son and says:


🙄🙄Son, it's like we're on a train...we can't stop anywhere...


☺️☺️It is a word of command aimed at the husband...


😉😉Then I understand why the husband got upset and suggested to have tea..


☝Accordingly, she felt the need to stop the journey and stay for a while, so she suggested her husband to drink tea.


☝ But she did not tell her husband that need directly and asked if he wanted tea and thought to fulfill it and also fulfill her need...


☝☝ According to psychologists and sociologists, women often present their ideas, ideologies, wants and needs indirectly.


😏She doesn't say things directly and directly because she thinks it's like an order.


😏She wants to say things smoothly and softly to the other...


😏 According to the example above, if you say to your husband, "Let's stay for a while and drink some tea", it takes the form of a command.


So she said it indirectly.


👳But many men are not able to understand indirectly what women say in this way...and are not interested in it..


👳 This is because male and female brains work differently when it comes to using and understanding language.


🔉When they want something from the other


🔉A woman gradually begins to show the need to be very close to the other.


For example, a husband says to his wife:


This is not a trick or fake.


She wants to fulfill her needs without burdening others...


Therefore, giving the opportunity to help others in their own needs.


But most men can't understand this and some people can.


😳 That is why many wives are worried and stressed.


😳 By that time the problem has gone too far..


🥲When the wife complained about it


🥺🥺🥺Men always ask


😏Then tell me that first..


😏 Do I know what you mean by saying that..


😏 If it was said correctly, I wouldn't do that...


Neither side is at fault and this is because the communication between the two sides is different in terms of using language and grasping things.


Women don't ask for things, they expect things.


Although at first it was a normal expectation


When it is not received, Sankha becomes very depressed.


There she can't bear it, not her own failure to get what was expected,,,


Failure to live up to the other's expectations.


Maybe she can't handle it.


An excerpt



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